DESCRIPTION

Most people don’t get used because they’re weak.
They get used because they’re capable, conscientious, and inclined to cooperate — often without realising where cooperation quietly turns into self-betrayal.

The Edge of Human Behaviour is about learning where that line is.

Not the edge of aggression.
Not the edge of cynicism.
But the edge where clarity replaces guilt, and steadiness replaces resentment.

Drawing on decades of clinical practice and real-world observation, this book explores how people are subtly pressured, manipulated, or worn down — and why good people so often tolerate more than they should.

You’ll learn how to recognise these dynamics early, respond calmly, and protect your dignity without becoming hardened, suspicious, or combative.

This is not a book about “winning” against others.
It’s about not losing yourself in the process.

WHAT THIS BOOK IS ABOUT

At its core, this book helps you understand:

how manipulation actually works in everyday situations
why “being nice” is often mistaken for being wise
the psychological instincts that get exploited in decent people
how boundary erosion happens slowly, not dramatically
how to respond without over-explaining, pleasing, or withdrawing

The focus is not on blaming others, but on developing discernment — the ability to see what is happening clearly and act with quiet strength.

WHAT THIS BOOK IS (AND IS NOT)

This book is:

psychologically informed, not motivational
practical, not theoretical
calm, not confrontational
about clarity, not dominance

This book is not:

a collection of power tactics
a guide to manipulation or “winning” games
therapy in book form

WHO THIS BOOK IS FOR

This book is for people who:

feel drained or uneasy after certain interactions
are reliable, capable, and often end up carrying more than their share
struggle with guilt when setting boundaries
sense something is off, but can’t quite name it
want strength without becoming cynical or closed off
are tired of feeling like a doormat

What You Will Learn

In The Edge of Human Behaviour, you’ll learn how everyday interactions drift off course — and how to respond before resentment takes hold.

Specifically, you’ll learn how to:

spot subtle manipulation before it escalates
recognise the instincts that get exploited in decent people
identify the moment you cross your own internal edge
set boundaries without drama, guilt, or justification
stay firm without becoming hard

This is practical insight designed for real situations, not ideal ones.

FORMAT & STYLE

Format: eBook (PDF / EPUB)
Style: Clear, conversational, psychologically grounded
Structure: Short, focused chapters designed for insight and reflection

CLOSING LINE

If you’ve ever thought,
“I don’t feel right about this — I'm tired of being used,”
this book will help you understand that moment, and respond to it cleanly.

“If you’re interested in how to stop these moments escalating, 'Not Yet' explores that next step.”